PAM and Allan Wallace from North Haven celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary on 30 April.
Their love story is a testament to lasting devotion, resilience, and the beauty of a lifelong partnership.
Both Pam and Allan were born and raised in Homebush, however their paths did not cross until fate intervened at a local dance years later.
When asked about their serendipitous encounter, Pam fondly recalls the first time she laid eyes on Allan at the Police Boys Club in Burwood.
“Although I was only 16 at the time, I remember thinking that Allan had the most beautiful head of red hair,” said Pam.
“We went together for a while and then Allan asked my dad for permission for us to be married.”
In 1955, aged 21, Pam and Allan exchanged vows, beginning their journey as husband and wife.
Married life got off to a less than ideal start, with their honeymoon plans unexpectedly altered.
“After our wedding we couldn’t travel to The Entrance to begin our honeymoon because it was raining too much,” said Malcolm.
“So we had to stay at Pam’s dad’s house which was pretty full.
“We were in the double room at the front of the house and during the night our cat came through the window with a mouse.
“He jumped up onto our bed and decided to let the mouse go and have a run-around on our bed, which had everyone in hysterics.”
In 1960 the couple moved to a house that Allan had built in Carlingford, and they welcomed two children, Nerida and Craig.
Pam and Allan both worked diligently during the day, while Allan pursued additional studies at night.
Eventually Allan made a bold career change, transitioning from the building industry to banking.
He joined the Bank of NSW (Westpac) where he continued to work until his retirement.
In 1990, the couple made the decision to move to North Haven, where they could enjoy retirement and Allan could pursue his passion for orchid cultivation.
Reflecting on their journey, both Pam and Allan emphasised the importance of mutual respect and teamwork.
“No one is the boss in our marriage,” said Allan.
“We work together as much as we can as a team and we always respect each other.”
Pam and Allan have one granddaughter, two grandsons and three great-grandchildren.
“What has made our marriage truly wonderful has been the opportunity to watch our two children grow up and have their own families,” Pam said.
“It’s a joy.”
By Kim AMBROSE
